I think I subscribe to a fairly basic dictionary definition of feminism: it's somebody who seeks equality between the sexes and between all people.
Nothing gets my hackles up like being told I can't do something.
These people never learn that violence against women is unacceptable. But they also never learn that women will not be shamed and silenced and made to disappear. I am not going anywhere. So bring it on, motherfuckers. Let's see who blinks first.
I know that the boundaries I create deserve to be respected. That self-care is not the same as selfishness. That this is my life, my voice, my body, my rules, and that no one gets to determine my narrative apart from me.