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(2019 TV Movie)

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6/10
No way this was made for Lifetime...
Carriexoc18 August 2019
WAY above Lifetime's status. Just a good movie all around. Period.
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5/10
Predictable and stereotypical
phd_travel18 July 2019
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The plot is obvious from the beginning. A Chef has a Best Friend who obviously has the hots for her. She gets swept off her feet by a good on paper wealthy hedge fund guy. But he's a cheater. Repeated. So she leaves him for Best Friend but gets a cute fixer upper for her suffering. Why must the better looking hedge fund guy cheat? Stereotype. Moderately watchable but just too predictable.
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7/10
Intriguing drama about adult relationships
rossmcfarlen17 June 2020
Initially, I thought this was from the thriller genre, but halfway through it dawned on me, finally, that I was watching a drama about relationships - romantic & otherwise.

The dialogue is real and the four leads do a very good job playing the characters, as they attempt to pursue their individual dreams. The photography & interior decor for urban rural settings are superb, capturing the essence of both and very pleasant to drink in.

You'll see many films in this genre but this is certainly above average (there's nothing to nitpick here - this is solid filmmaking) and worth another viewing or three.

In 2020 - where quality screenwriting is to be found in TV series/TV movies and rarely in the clunky Hollywood releases, where the emphasis can be on star power and special effects - dramas like this one are rare to find indeed.
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7/10
Where Lifetime meets Hallmark
krs-9220229 December 2020
This was one part Lifetime and one part Hallmark. It was a great mix between the two. I wish there were more like this one.
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7/10
What! No psycho! Just shiny people
pumping_iron-112 August 2023
No! No psycho. This was actually a romcom. I agree with another reviewer. I thought I had accidentally recorded a Hallmark movie. I hate Hallmark movies. But this was a pretty good movie. Normal, if you know what I mean. I kept waiting for someone to become all psycho but it never happened. It was about love, marriage, friendship and adultery, without a psycho.

The cast is good. Everyone's character is believable. The acting is above average. The storyline is a little slow but it keeps you entertained.

Why on earth did sweet, wholesome Alice (Erika Christensen) think she could become one of the shiny people. She couldn't see Joe (Antonio Cupo) for who he really is. It took her so long to figure it out. How could she not have known Harry's (Andy Favreau) feelings. It was obvious throughout the entire movie. The movie ended happily. It was a hallmark movie moment.
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Heartless propaganda
keith-hewle27 July 2021
Primarily. I think everybody who gave it a good review must have confused it with another film Secondarily.

I watched it in a UK Channel Five crime series screened in the matinee slot. After fifty minutes of tedium. I was still waiting for the murder. It never happened.

Instead I was bombarded by inane vacuous philosophical yawp. Spoken by wooden characters. Who firmly believed we live forever and can have everything.

Oh dear. Are some people in for a rude awakening ? One hundred years ago. Only a short time relatively. Our forebears felt they were lucky to be alive, valued each day given to them and counted their blessings. No matter how terrible any of their lives might have appeared. They just thanked God for it and never complained this stupid film seems to perpetrate a myth which if believed will inevitably result in impressionable souls being seduced by a total fiction If you live in the real world as I do. Ignore this fairy tale.
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6/10
Goof!
amy-4795030 June 2019
In the beginning of the movie when she is carrying the caterers tray. There is only one bowl of tuna appetizer while holding a conversation it switches from two bowls of tuna then back to one bowl of tuna all in the same scene and back to two bowls.
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3/10
Watchable.... Once.
bubbles-781-60228517 June 2020
This film was ok but having read the info I thought it was going to be a tense, mild-thriller type movie about a controlling husband. I waited for him to become this controlling psycho... And waited... And waited. He controls her to a point but not as much as I was expecting. All in all, bit of a dull movie. Great ending but slightly boring and nothing really happens.
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1/10
So wrong
vmhc-7579717 August 2019
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In the book he was attracted to her because he could change her and she was malleable. I can't believe that premise was altered for the movie. He changes her hair from mousey brown to blonde. She wasn't blonde from the start. Terrible.
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8/10
Really Good!
rebekahrox1 July 2019
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I was thoroughly entertained by this movie in the "Books to Screen" series on Lifetime. I particularly enjoyed Erica Christensen's performance. Even though she did not throw the bum out at the first infidelity, she did not come across as a doormat. There was lots of Drama, but it was not over the top so as to be squirmy. I liked that the bad husband was not thoroughly evil and hateful. He did not physically or verbally abuse her, he just could not keep it zipped and wanted her to be a certain type of wife. Which she went along with until she decided not to. The movie kept me engaged through both her personal and professional development, and liked the final outcome with the fresh start with both.
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1/10
So far from the book it's a different story
vmhc-7579717 August 2019
This is barely even inspired by the actual book. How can Alice already be blonde?!?!? This movie doesn't even capture the messages or lessons of the book. What happened to Harry? So disappointed.
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8/10
The Shortcomings of the Shiny People
lavatch29 December 2019
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Young Alice dreams of becoming a master chef and caterer. She begins by working for Madeleine's catering service in Seattle. She has two loyal friends in her bestie Em and Harry, who clearly has an attraction to Alice. But, in a whirlwind romance, Alice meets her old middle school classmate Joe Chambers. But, it turns out that this is not any ordinary Joe.

The filmmakers strive for a fairy tale with Alice working through her trials and tribulations to finally fulfill her dreams. Joe gets transferred to New York after he is caught on camera sharing the same chair with a co-worker. Alice dutifully tags along, hoping for children and a dream house in the country in Connecticut.

Multiple scenes depict Alice struggling with fertility issues. She announces when she is ovulating, and she checks the outcomes while sitting on the loo. Slowly, it dawns on her that Joe is not even interested in having children. Because he refuses to participate in fertility clinic, the filmmakers subtly suggest that he may have had a vasectomy, which he has concealed to Alice.

A shortcoming of the film is the failure to identify why Joe even wants to remain in a relationship with Alice. He forbids her to continue in her beloved catering work, and he effectively exiles her to Connecticut, while he continues with his serial philandering in New York. Why would even want to stay with her?

Inevitably, the fairly tale romance must return to Alice's attraction to Harry as her soul mate. But a complication arises when Harry and Alice's bestie Em are now a couple. It doesn't help matters when Em catches Alice and Harry engaged in a New Year's Eve smooch.

Alice finally breaks out of her selfless character when she cuts bait with Joe and begins a new catering service under the prosaic title of Alice's Eats. The plot device that is the game-changer is a mash note written by Harry to Alice and buried for three years in an old couch. Alice's discovery of the note is the catalyst for moving into action to mend her friendship with Em and to get Harry to come to Connecticut.

No longer will Alice be sleepless in Seattle. She has discovered that she is not obligated to "try to be someone that I'm not." Now, at age 37 and with her catering operation in full swing, she will be ready to take her place as a mother alongside her beloved Harry. The crowd in which Joe Chambers moved was called by Alice "the shiny people."

In this schmaltzy motion picture, Alice will be happy to take the shiny people's money for her catering gigs. But she has found her true self in her idyllic cottage in the lap of nature where she can work up a miracle meal in an hour bring it to the shiny people via Alice's Eats.
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8/10
Hallmark on Lifetime?
RNMorton25 June 2019
The misses likes the sordid side of the Lifetime movie, when I dive in I prefer the pleasant side of the Hallmark movies. We got not too far into this and I had to let the misses know that, sadly, this was Hallmark-bound even if the Lifetime logo was bottom right. Christenson does an attractive and believable turn in these sort of things and the other actors were pretty solid, at least Hallmark-style. Is Lifetime realizing that pleasant can sometimes beat unpleasant? I don't know but this sure seemed to be on the wrong channel.
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9/10
This actress is a natural for this part.
aocsincher18 April 2020
Love a guy, leave a guy, find a new guy, leave a new guy, find an old guy, love an old guy...it never gets old, you can't see the forest for the trees, you can't see what right there in front of you. Did I mention that EC is an easy 10'er?
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