I understand the film is trying to showcase the life of a lesbian family however the plot is overshadowed by activities and actions that doesn't quite make sense. Other have already pointed out some of the issues; some of these being, 1. Lesbian having sex with a guy because she is insecure? It could happen but it also raises questions as to why didn't she turn to another woman for her needs? 2. Paul isn't at fault here as we soon find out. He is genuinely falling in love with her. The movie made this very clear. If anything she was the one that started the fling. Denying Pauls love and presenting it in such a horrible, demeaning way at the end was uncalled for. The general idea of gays being "more" sensitive just flew out the window for me because of this. I feel so bad for Paul and the movie ends abruptly without any remorse for him aside from him throwing his helmet about cause things got screwed up and it's a complicated situation. Oh and the cruelty of the last words spoken by Niki to Paul, just wow. That alone wiped everything that was nice about the movie for me. Those words, people, are obscenely cruel.
3. The relationship between the kids and Niki were not developed enough, especially with Laser. It was Laser that wanted the contact, wanted to find out more. However as the movie progresses it is left unknown and whatever the movie wanted to project at the end when Paul looks through the window is lost. The few scenes they have together were confusing as well, especially with Laser's most-likely gay skater friend.
4. The relationship between the two moms were so-so. Granted most of it was pleasant and enjoyable to watch. The beginning sex scene was umm disturbing. Who here has a partner providing them service while stiffing under the bed cover? As for the gay porn, I'm not sure why so many of you have issues with this. Sex is Sex. If you enjoy watching or having sex what does it matter? Seriously, why would it matter? Grow up and stop pretending you're an almighty gay person or straight person. Having that sick, twisted and ignorant discussion about sex doesn't help.
5. The Green issue. Throughout the movie we see the family being green. They eat right, they have a prius, they are conscientious. Niki, however, appears to be OK going back and forth. Granted the movie makes a reference to this because she doesn't like Pual but that's besides the point. Again, the cruelty of the words from Niki to Jules is astounding. I bet most of you missed this.
Well, going to end it here. I did enjoy the movie but was very annoyed and somewhat turned off by how the parents was portrayed and how badly Paul was treated. It certainly didn't help that Paul was essentially left out, kicked out and abandon by everyone in the family for something that he alone did not cause but he ALONE had the right to enact upon (which he didn't start btw). I mean if you agree and criticize Paul you might as well shoot cupid now and be done with it.
Lastly, after reading some of the comments here and some of the forums post I believe, with 95% certainty, that many of you have little to no idea what the hell you're talking about for being LBGT or straight. It tells me that your life must still be filled with confusion over your decision to be gay or straight.
Edit: People, Paul stated he was falling in love with Jules. He didn't have an affair with Jules, she had an affair with Paul. There is a difference. Why are so many of you missing this when the movie makes it so clear what Paul's stance was? Hell, he even quit playing around because he wants to find someone that he can grow old and have a family with!
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