We learn about Obi Wan's past. He had also loved a woman. And for her he was ready to quit the Jedi order. Only if she would want him to commit to her.
Unlike Anakin, Obi Wan had decided to make a choice. Commitment to his love or to the Jedi order.
Anakin who came in the same situation, didn't want to make a choice. He wanted both. He lost both.
I just love these series...